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Security Versus Love, What Is Your Choice? Are We Asking Ourselves About Love Or How Large Is The Bank Account?

How can we grow in a relationship, if our goals are limited to a flashy way of living with no sense of stability? We suppose to own homes right? We suppose own land right? How can we acquire these things if we are wasting our money on items that depreciate in value as soon as we buy them? It’s not that we buy the items per se, but the reason we are buying these items.   I often wonder, as a man, how important is security compared to love in a relationship. Relationships are suppose to be about love, trust, loyalty, faithfulness, devotion, commitment, truthfulness, and the list can go on with words we often disregard when we first connect with a potential love of our life. … Continue readingSecurity Versus Love, What Is Your Choice? Are We Asking Ourselves About Love Or How Large Is The Bank Account?

5 Reasons He May Lose Interest Before a Relationship Starts

Losing interest in a woman consist of multiple philosophies working together simultaneously to make the decision if he as man will continue to put forth an effort or leave to find another woman. I’m leaving these topics open ended for feedback. I’m interested in hearing your thoughts on losing interest in a potential partner. What are the breaking points do you folks use to determine if you will not continue to put forth any effort in a potential relationship? … Continue reading5 Reasons He May Lose Interest Before a Relationship Starts

How Do You Feel Negative Interactions Impact Your Current Relationships?

I am interested to see how the adolescent years impacted your interaction within relationship at this time. DO you have a person who you remember scared you, but you find a way to overcome the heartbreak and have a successful relationship in the present time. Do you still hold a grudge for the negative actions committed to you? I found a way to forgive each and every person who have done me wrong in a relationship. … Continue readingHow Do You Feel Negative Interactions Impact Your Current Relationships?

I Almost Died From Alcohol Poison In 2010: From a Fear of Transition, To Gratefulness For Change

Back in February of 2010 during the CIAA, I almost died from alcohol poison. I engulfed the liquor until my body could not consume anymore and blacked out. Some cheap Pinnacle vodka that delivered me to one of the darkest places ever in life without even knowing how to escape.  I remember looking around for my phone the day after. I found the phone and could not think of a soul I could call on to help me, but maybe my mom and or my cousin. … Continue readingI Almost Died From Alcohol Poison In 2010: From a Fear of Transition, To Gratefulness For Change

Romance, Unfortunately We Lose Interest, but Why IKE ELLIS

Relationships with women based on security blankets such as education, financial dependency, and discount the ability to be love through romance. Whether good or bad, we as individuals have to search for some type of balance when it comes to romancing and being romanced. Though we hear the word constantly, do we really take the time to practice romance? Do we really keep the romance consistent within our relationships? Do hold sight of what’s important within the relationship aside from the life’s atrocities? Let’s try to keep the romance alive and the relationships spontaneous. … Continue readingRomance, Unfortunately We Lose Interest, but Why IKE ELLIS

Relationship Expectations .01- Love Hurts By IKE ELLIS, A Musician In North Carolina

“Two things that can destroy any relationship is unrealistic expectation and poor communication” Find out how to produce quality results within a relationship through existence, discovery, and sharing of expectations as it applies to relationships … Continue readingRelationship Expectations .01- Love Hurts By IKE ELLIS, A Musician In North Carolina